Vivian Chow is getting married to Joe Nieh after the scandle between Joe and a girl, Miffty Zhang, was exposed on tabloids when they were caught in passionate kisses at a nightspot and created a drama for Joe's relationship with Vivian. However, both Vivian and Joe announced their break up four days after the photos were published. Then, on Dec 18, Joe surprise the public by announcing that he has successfully proposed to Vivian.
What is Vivian thinking, many may asked, at least I asked. It was not the first time Joe has been happily having affairs outside while leaving the poor Vivian at home in the dark. Of course one may asked why am I so work out over this, well that's because Vivian is my goddness since childhood. You can imagine during my era, how many Vivian's photos were pasted onto soliders' cupboard or homes of many. My Vivian.....
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It was no secrets that Joe was a Casanova, with many affairs being exposed and Vivian quick to forgive. Are wrongs easily forgot when forgiveness comes easy? Do people learned from their mistakes since seeking for forgiveness means one has done something wrong? I guessed quick and easy forgiveness can be tempting for one to be put the wrongdoings behind our mind. I remembered when younger I attended Sunday school, I was taught "Forgive and Forget" and I guess the meaning was seek for forgiveness and then forget that this thing happened, because end of the day nobody likes to be reminded that once they did wrong.
But again, who is one to judge about the matter of heart, is always 一个愿打一个愿挨, a matter between two parties. If she has chosen that road, then she has to bear that responsibility.
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